Dear Lady Violet,
I have problems with my husband. We married each other fondly and I still love him. I’m 34 years old. I have been very jealous of my husband’s female friends for the last two years. I try to keep calm but I can’t.
I’m domestic and I don’t like going out often. My husband is completely opposite to my character. He doesn’t like sitting at home and is bored. He often meets his friends and goes out. I wonder what he’s doing there. I offer to accompany him whenever he wants to travel, but I don’t always want to go out.
When my husband is chatting with other women I get jealous. We have been discussing this issue recently. I told him he was a married man and that he should spend more time at home. He got angry at me and said he was uncomfortable with being restricted. I told him not to go out to meet other women. He said don’t be silly. Nowadays I feel ugly. Maybe my husband is tired of me. I don’t want to lose it. I am Taurus, my husband’s zodiac sign is Aries.
Johanna
You should tolerate
Dear Johanna,
First of all, I would like to state that your spouse and your horoscopes are not very compatible. That’s why you can’t get along. Your lifestyle and perspective are different. You probably impressed him with your charm, and you are impressed by his charisma. The harmony of your horoscopes is very important in marriage, honey. Taurus signs are more fond of home life. One of their most negative traits is that they are jealous. Your husband is Aries and is very fond of his freedom. They don’t like to be restrained, and that upsets him.
Just because your husband goes out so much doesn’t mean he’s cheating on you. He just wants to enjoy life. Spending time at home is not suitable for Aries. I think you join him too. You have to limit your jealousy and be understanding of him. You are young and there is no reason to feel ugly. Don’t spoil your psychology with negative emotions. If you love him you shouldn’t restrict him. When you mutually understand each other, marital problems will be solved.
Yours faithfully
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